By H.L. Archer

When you have lost the love of your life, nothing seems to matter. The happy future you dreamed of has turned into loneliness and despair. One day follows another and hope of getting your ex boyfriend back is fading fast. That is where you may be wrong. If you have been giving him the time and space he asked for, every day is a day nearer to getting him back.

Most women think they have to push their ex and call him constantly to get him back. If you have been staying away from him, I congratulate you because that is just what you need to be doing. That is one of the biggest tips to make him fall madly in love with you again. When you ignore him and go on with your life as if he does not exist, you are bound to get his attention in a positive way. Chasing him will also get his attention, but in a negative way.

When a breakup occurs, and you are the one left behind you usually feel it is your job to make him see his mistake. Pushing him may make him see his mistake but he will never admit it and you will never get him back. You have to give him the space and time to work it out on his own. The longer he is without you, the more he will miss you and have second thoughts about the breakup.

To make him desperate to be with you again, he will have to begin to miss you. Once that happens, he will start to wonder if you still love him. Not hearing anything from you will make him feel that you may have found someone else and you are lost to him for good. Do these feeling sound familiar? They are the same ones you have been having that makes you desperate to get him back. They will soon make him realize he will not be happy until he is back with you.

When your ex boyfriend first met you, he was attracted to you because you seemed unavailable. When he approached you, you played hard to get and that was a challenge to him. Then he did what all men love to do and he started chasing you. By giving him plenty of time and space, you now seem unavailable again and he is attracted to you. His next move will be to approach you again. This will probably be by sending an email and ask you how you are doing. He will be testing the water to see how anxious you are to have him back. If you do not answer, he will have to call.

When he calls, treat him like a friend and let him do most of the talking. He will most likely ask you to meet him for coffee or lunch. Play hard to get and tell him you will have to think it over. By the time you call him back and accept his invitation, your ex boyfriend will be ready to agree to anything you suggest.

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